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6 responses to “How to Develop Understanding between Couples?”
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We should not believe in horoscope matching and kundali matching instead go for health checkups! I don’t fully support it! Practically its right but people who have this 2 reasons of rejection for anyone, they will have 3rd another reason to reject someone. Indian Dadis Nanis are already so orthodox they will have another great reason to bitch about someone or to reject.
Also the people who may have some problem in future, where would they go? Are they alien? They also have the same likings as others. What if you don’t recognize any problem before marriage and later on you get to know some pro. Would you leave him/her?
I know some girl, who is very sensitive to skin allergies, or frangrance and also used to get asthama attacks.. his bf knew it all they she could have problems to get the baby still they got married.. this is called understanding and love!
few years back, i was having the same the same discussion with someone and as he knew about diabetes heredity, he taunted on me indirectly that people should get health checkup first to get married! I simple asked him, ” What if your son is diabetic?” Would you specially look a girl with diabetes or you will always want a girl who is healthy and beautiful?
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See Payal, let me tell you one thing, by doing anything we cannot be able to change the mentality of such people. Honestly, I too faced almost similar types of situation which you explained, but I fight against all of them. My family would not even attended my marriage, they did whatever they could to stop me to marry her, and then there was a time when we were sure that we cannot have baby as the same kind of allergy problem was there with my wife. But then we came against that as well, we don’t even had Agarbattis burning in our home for around one year. Now see the family is also with us and we have a little angel as well.
So the main issue is that Payal, the young generation should come ahead to fight against all these issues, and it can only be possible if both are having a compatibility and understanding.
I never wanted to reveal our own story, but yes am planning to write about a novel on our marriage. But yes, it is a project which has a deadline of around 4-5 years later 🙂 Thanks that your comment reminded me everything 🙂
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Thank you for the mention Alok. This is a nice piece :). I agree, esp in arranged marriages, people tend to hide a few things which can end up being detrimental to the relationship in the end. Instead having an open conversation and meeting them before marriage, spending time with the person, getting to know him/her would be a nice way to go and assess if they can be with each other instead of plunging in and then checking the compatibility forms..
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Absolutely correct Vinay. After all they had to live a life of around 40-50 years together, then first let them meet and decide if they can be able to do so or not 🙂 Thank you so much Vinay for supporting my blog 🙂
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Much needed, Alok.
Wish people never hide facts, rather they must share the truth…-
Thank you so much Anita, I am delighted that you liked it. Yes you are absolutely right that people should not hide facts.
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