6 Types of People I normally ignore in My Life!
Normally I don’t blog such negative things, but still this time I thought to share a blog post about the types of people whom I don’t like much and normally ignore. Read on this blog to know those 6 types of people I normally ignore in my life.
Getting good friends is a very difficult thing in this life. I am a lucky one who normally has some really good friends. On the other side I do have some known people too who might consider me as a friend, but I normally ignore them, not because they are not good people, but they might have some qualities which I normally don’t like.
But yes, it is also true that if needed I will be the first person who will stand for them, bur yes I would not prefer to call them as my friends.
So here are those 6 types of people I normally ignore in my life:
I don’t remember where but I read one line which actually touched my heart. It was “Carve your name on hearts with your behavior, not on stone”. Honestly it is your nature which can help you to carve your name on hearts, and if you are selfish and egotistical in nature then no one will let you sit in their heart.
The very first types of people whom I do simply hate are those who are selfish and egotistical in nature. I am sure not many others will also like such people. Honestly speaking I have never seen this nature in any of the blogger. Those who do blogging can never be selfish and egotistic. Blogging is all about sharing what little you do have, and if you do have selfish nature, you cannot be able to share whatever you do have.
So in this matter I consider myself as a fortunate one who have so many friends who are bloggers, and so I need not to tackle more with selfish and egoistic people. But then on my personal front I encountered many who has this type of nature and hence I normally ignore them. They came closer to me to take some benefits from me, and sometimes they take it too, but then you all know that it cannot be possible every time. The moment I realize their nature I simply stay away from them and don’t allow them to take benefits from me.
The second types of people I usually don’t like are those who wear a mask to impress others. Normally we should be the same who we actually are; we should not always wear a mask to impress others.
Don’t remember how many people I do met in my life who will display themselves as the best person with a sugar coated voice, nature and attitude, but in reality they are actually wearing a mask. Honestly when their real face came to you, you will start hating them.
Here ironically I also wanted to say something about myself too. For some people in this world I might also be the same. They normally do hate me because they consider my face as a mask to impress them. It might be possible that they have made some impressions about my real face, and they do hate me because of that only. Believe me; I never bother what those people do think about me. I know what I am and what I am doing, and will always do the same.
If you like it, you will always be my friend, but if you don’t like me, I will never bother to call you. Though it hurt when people made misconception about you, but you cannot be able to change others. It is better to change yourself only.
As far as my own views about myself is concerned, I don’t fear the judgments of others about me, I know who and what I am and never act as perfect to impress someone else. If you do think that I am good, you will surely gonna like me.
Honestly speaking none of us is perfect. Then why to act like this?
So I do ignore such people who always try to impress others with a mask on their face.
To be very frank I am having a positive attitude towards everything which life brings to me, and would prefer the person who always has the similar types of positive attitude. I usually hate negativity and hate those who spread it.
On the other hand I have seen many people out here who either remain confused with their surroundings or don’t even aware of the fact that they are being surrounded by all negative people. I usually try not to be a friend of those people. Let them be happy with their surroundings, I won’t be a part of that negative company.
Let me give you an example, one of the people whom I closely met remains happy with guys surrounded around him who has all the negative approach towards life. Only because they all have some profits from him, they use to tell all the good things about him. Honestly speaking, if you don’t know who is your real well-wisher then I must say there is no point in staying near you.
If you are a person who remain happy with people wearing mask then don’t worry I won’t be a part of your life. If you know who is your real well-wisher let them give the value, instead of those really fake people.
Let me tell you one of the best secret of my own life. If you really want to grow up in your life, you must let go of the past to make way for your future. If you won’t allow changes to grow your life, you will realize someday that nothing is changed in your life.
I usually hate those guys who never allow changes in their lifestyle and say no to growth, and hence ignore them.
I do have firm belief on the fact that no matter how glorious your past was, it won’t go to help you anyway in coming days. The thing which matters a lot is what you are today and what your approach is to grow from here. If you are happy with your present, and not trying to grow from here also, one day you will realize that you lost so many things.
To be very frank, to jump higher we need to take some steps behind in our life. There is absolutely no harm in going down for some time to do something good in your life. But then if you remain stuck to the same position then this is really bad.
Sometimes you can also found me lazy enough to do anything; usually it happens on weekends after I spent a packed and hectic week. But that laziness is different than what laziness I am talking about, that is the example of being lazy physically and that too for some temporary phase.
I normally do hate those who has this laziness mentally and permanent in nature, those who remain in daydreaming and try to develop so many wishes. My dear friends start doing something to achieve your dreams. If you cannot try, nothing will be achieved in this world.
These types of people are those only who are normally lazy from their mind and think that someone else will create their dreams. My dear friends it is not at all possible that someone else will create your dreams for you; yes it is possible that they might help you in some way to achieve your dreams, but why will they create it for you?
One of the worst things which I do consider is to letting someone else create your dreams for you and I simply ignore such types of people.
Let me tell you all a very interesting thing. Many people consider it as a bad thing that there are so many people out here who disagree with you. I do consider it as the best thing. If there are many people who are disagree with you, it simple means that you are standing your own ground and walking towards making your own path. I am sure you will succeed one day.
I am not sure about if you like this blog post of mine or not, and even I am not sure about what do you think about me as a person. Do you find some of the same points which I discussed above inside me as well? If so then please don’t hesitate in let me know about it. I will be happy to know if you ever considered me the same types of people whom I usually ignore and hate and I definitely never want to be like that, so if you do let me know that I will definitely try to improve upon that.
Please do share whatever you feel about this blog post. I will accept the real feedback about myself from you all.
This is a really nice one Alok. Frankly I prefer to avoid these types of people. They are more of a drain on energy than a reinforcement.
Really nice to see you these types of articles Alok, it gives a nice picture of your views on the world and also something we could all relate to. Very elegantly done 🙂
Thanks a lot Vinay. Honestly we all faces problem with having those types of friends, and this is the reason why I try to maintain a good distance from them.
Couldn’t agree more with Vinay. Such articles let us see a different side of you Alok,, and helps us connect more with the person behind the blog.
The only type I stay far away from is the negative. Big black hole sucking all my energy. I don’t need that!
Thank you so much Anawnimiss 🙂 I am glad that you liked my blog post. You are right negative people can create a big hole around you, and we should stay away from it.
Completely can’t agree more Alokji…no more to add…really enjoyed the article and made me reflect too
Thank you so much Chaitali 🙂
Interesting post !
Thanks a lot Ananya, I am glad that you liked it. 🙂
Very insightful post. Speaking from experience, I only recently realised that negative people so drain us out, and they can be anyone – family, friends or random acquaintances. It’s better to stay away from them, than live under the false impression that they are our social cushions.
Very well said Ragini, I am glad that you shared your personal experience with us. It is very much true that those negative minded people can drain us out and we are required to stay away from those. You know what we all need the positive minded people near us, there is actually a shortage of such people, and hence I always want to stay in touch with such people whenever I encounter some.
I know that sometimes I too had this negative approach towards life, but thankfully with the grace of God I do have some good friends, which include my wife Punam too, and hence I can easily come out of such situation. 🙂 Thank you for your visit and comment on this blog 🙂
It is ironically true that despite having some of the qualities you mention I hate people having these qualities. Thanks Alok for reminding me that I’ve to work harder in these areas.
Thanks a lot Ravish for your comment on this blog post. Honestly we don’t have the courage to accept the fact that we do have some of those qualities inside us, the reason why I shared this blog post is to get rid of those issues only, and if you are accepting it my purpose of blogging this is a huge success. I wish you all the best to get rid of any such things if you do have, which I doubt you have. 🙂 Thank you again for your visit and comment.
I understand the frustrations when we encounter all such kind of people you have mentioned. Ignoring is the the best option. As we cant go on hating and thinking about people. There is good in everyone and thinking only on negatives makes us focus only on the bad. So yes, the trick is definitely to ignore when you don’t like someone’s attitude and behaviour 🙂
Rightly said Roohi, I am glad that you liked my approach, I honestly hate those people, but never show this hate-ness to them as I do believe that spreading hate-ness is not at all a good thing, instead I simply ignore them.
Thank you Roohi for sharing your comment 🙂
True! these can drain you out!
Thank you so much Ilakshee for liking the blog post and sharing your opinion as well 🙂 You said it absolutely right that these can drain you out.
Six distinct categories …one should always keep distance from. The most dangerous , in my opinion are those people who are selfish and egoistical…they can simply harm you to attain their own end…
insightful post as always..
Thanks a lot Maniparna, I am glad that you liked it and you said it absolutely right that selfish and egoistical people are the most dangerous. Honestly I don’t like to be known as the friend of any selfish person.
Thank you once again for your comment 🙂
That’s an interesting post. Kudos on such a comprehensive list! 😀
Thank you so much Deboshree.
I myself have met many people who sugar coat from out and are very evil from the inside , they wear masks and make sure people around them are fooled, I hate them too! And as for those who keep the company of negative , it is their own loss, negative people themselves make it worse for the people around them. And i loved your point of laziness ! procrastinating is definitely something I avoid , laziness is the death of all things good. very nice post , and no its not negativity , you are simply telling whom one should avoid , so this is a positive post ! 🙂
Thank you so much Najm Nisa, I am glad that you liked this blog post of mine. It is true that laziness is really a dangerous approach and yes wearing a masks to impress someone is also not a good thing, your mask will surely come out one day and your naked face will be bad for whom you were trying to impress.
Thank you once again for supporting so much 🙂
Alok ji,
your post is much needed insights for everyone, as many times in our life we are struck in such confusions & lost our will, faith on goodness. I also prefer to stay away from negative & egoistical people.I read somewhere,wen we meet someone for the first time, it’s their aura which is reflected & we get attracted/impressed with them.With few we just wish to move away & never talk again 😀 😀 it’s really something which I believes.
thanks for such a wonderful post & guidance.
Good wishes.
Thank you so much Ruchi, I am really glad that you liked this blog post of mine, the one line which you said “when we meet someone for the first time, it’s their aura which is reflected & we get attracted/impressed with them” is actually very true. One thing which you also pointed out is that because of these negative people only we lose our faith in goodness, and this is really bad. We should get rid of these types of people… 🙂
Thank you once again for your valuable comment on it.
Nice post
Thank you so much Arushi.
Nice list, and definitely a reminder for me when I meet new people. I stay away from certain kinds of people too- the wannabes, the emotional manipulators and the ‘misery loves company’ kind of people, who will drag you down into their misery.
Thank you so much Chaitanya 🙂 I am glad that you liked this blog post of mine. 🙂 Thank you for your valuable comment over here…
It is really a list of nice things ahich every one should follow in their practical life.
Thank you so much Sampat Kumari jee 🙂 I am glad that you liked it.
Simply a great post. I think everyone should ignore these types of people.