Five Golden Rules for a Happy Life!

How to find happiness in your life? Did your heart ever asked this question to you?

Are you living a happy life?

If yes then I am quite sure you would never have clicked on the link to land over here. If you are reading these lines then it simply means that somehow you are also feeling that you are not living a happy life.

Don’t worry buddy, read on this blog post of mine to know about the five golden rules for a happy life, if you are looking for the answer of how to find happiness in your life. You can simply follow all these rules to get happiness in your life.

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Five Golden Rules for a Happy Life! 

To be very frank, we all are living a very tense life. Undoubtedly we are living in a too busy world, where we don’t have much time for enjoying the life. We are living the life, just because we have to.

I am not saying it in the manner that I myself is living an unhappy life. To be very frank I am fortunate enough that by the grace of god I am living a good and happy life with my loving wife and one and a half year old daughter. She is the little angel who shred away all the unhappiness from my life.

It is also true that some small-small things goes wrong in our life too, some major things are also lacking in our life, but then I don’t allow those tensions to ruin the happiness of our life.

This is the reason why I decided to come up with this blog post on how to find happiness in our life.

Here are the five golden rules, as per my experience which can make you happy in your life:

Expect Less 

The major reason behind the unhappiness of any person is the term expectation. To be very frank the more you will expect from someone, the more you will feel pain in your life.

Expect very less from others and see how happy you will be in your life.

Saying this is quite easy, but then practically it is near about impossible to achieve. We human beings are too emotional and this is the reason which separates us from animals. We do attach with so many other people in our life, and this brings expectations from them.

Unfortunately when those expectations are not fulfilled, we feel cheated.

Let me tell you a real story. Two of my friends were too close in my life; I tried doing whatever good I can do for them. Though unfortunately I met with a financial crisis and was unable to pay them some amount for their hard work, although the amounts were not that big. I do agree with the fact that in this case it was my fault that I did asked them to work for something and paid only the part payment.

Unfortunately till now I did not recovered from the financial crisis from that day and you won’t be surprised to know that I have been thrown out from both of their life.

Now the thing is that, for a few bucks you cannot ignore all the good things which a person has done in your life. But then it might be my own views as am seeing only my perspective, from their perspective I might be enjoying all the features of life and not giving them their few bucks. So they might be true in their attitude as well.

So the thing which I was saying over here is that expect less, but then also don’t start ignoring a person from your life if he did not fulfilled some of your expectations. Just think if a person is valuable in your life or not, if yes then let them be in your life despite being the fact that they failed to fulfill your expectations.

Though you all can have a different opinion about it, if yes then please do share them in the form of comments.

Live a Simple Life 

Normally we do say that live a life with this thinking “plain living and high thinking”. It is very much true, that if you live a simple life you will be happier in your life.

You know the reason why we do remain unhappy in our life. It is simply because we have unlimited desires in our life, which are either impossible to achieve, or if achieved will further increase to next level. Don’t you think that the desires which you have these days are too higher than what you desired a few years or days back.

After a few years you will realize that your desires has also increased in between, while you achieved all the desires which you had a few years back.

These desires are truly unlimited. You cannot remain happy for a long once you achieve them as well. The moment the celebration will be over you will start thinking about some other goals. This is the reason why I always say that set small-small goals and think to achieve them one by one in your life.

And as per my previous point if you won’t expect much, you will never be upset if some small goals of your life failed to achieve.

Thus start living a simple life from today only. Think high but don’t expect much.

Don’t Hatred 

Now this is something which I can really say as the best characteristics of a person, although it is the toughest thing to do in real life. If you want to be happy in your life then don’t hate anyone. Try to forgive everyone out here and you will be happier in your life.

There are so many people we encounter daily, who will somehow with their acts disappoint us, irritate us and we will start hating them.

Though if you hear me, then I will say it is not at all useful to collect all the hatred to those guys in your heart.

It will give pain to your heart only.

Free your heart from hatred and enjoy living a happy life.

Don’t Worry Much 

This is something which I normally found in females. No matter of which age group they do belong, almost every one of them will worry so much about anything.

Let me tell you one interesting thing, can you be able to resolve something by just worrying about them?

To be very frank, No, then why to worry so much?

Instead of worrying about anything, let’s focus on how you can achieve the best results from it.

Free your mind from worries and see how drastically you will start enjoying your life. Try to spend some time with your family on a daily basis. I know you all still do the same, but then you do so with a tensed mind. You think about many other things when you spend time with your family.

Forget all the worries of the office, once you left office in the evening. Forget all the worries of your home once you left home in the morning.

If you don’t know how, then start hearing music in between.

Give More to Others 

One of the things which always bring happiness in our life is giving. Try to give whatever is possible to others. If you give happiness to someone else, you are bound to get the same in return.

Try to give small-small gifts to your near and dear ones. Try to gift some sweets, eatables, dresses, blankets, etc. to poor people. I am not saying that you should give all these from cutting your necessary expenses, let us do this from some part of your income or savings.

So these were the 5 golden rules which will surely bring lots of happiness in your life. But other than these one more thing which I can suggest you to get happiness is to spend some time of your daily life with elderly people and kids. It is something which will definitely make you happier in your life.

Also along with these you need to manage the finances as well, try not to be fall in the trap of any debt. Debt is something which can take away all the happiness from your life.

I am quite sure that the 5 golden rules and the 2 bonus points which I explained above are good enough to bring happiness in your life. Please do must share your feelings about this blog post of mine in the form of comments.