10 Things which can make you Successful!
We all want to be successful in our life, but do we know about a few things which can make us successful? Here are those 10 things which can make you successful.
You know the secret which can make you successful?
Any guess?
Well, it is the confidence, which can make you successful in your life. If you are not confident about your own ability, talent, it means you won’t be successful ever.
It’s a general saying that if you won’t believe on your own talent or ability, why anyone else will do so?
It is in fact true that only confident people have this believe that they can be successful. And those who don’t have believed on this will never be successful.
So here are we with those 10 things which can make you successful and help to get achieve whatever you want to:
I guess I already mentioned this point in one of my recent blog on 5 tips for self improvement. I wrote over there that always do support your decisions.
Do remember one thing, successful people never has this tendency of making excuses for any failure. You need to understand that if you failed somewhere for any reasons, no one else was responsible for that.
It is you only who is responsible for all the decisions which you take. Never make this habit of giving excuse for anything.
Believe me, as I always say that no one is perfect, and you can never ever be perfect. It simply does not means that you should not try for being perfect. Always remember one thing, try to improve yourself till the last breath of your life.
Undoubtedly, if you have this tendency of making excuses for anything, just improve yourself and stay away of making excuses for anything.
You will become successful.
If you will always live in a bubble of comfort around you, you will never ever try your best to become successful.
Come out of your comfort zone and try to achieve whatever you have decided to achieve. You know what an athlete will never get success unless he will stretch himself and practice hard.
So if you really want to be successful in your life, come out of the comfort zone immediately.
Remember if you have this tendency of ignoring things off unless it becomes urgent, you will never be successful in your life.
Successful people never ever put things off until next week. They know the importance of planning and do accordingly. They know the importance of time and the fact that any work is useless if it is not completed on time.
Well, let me tell you one secret. Never wait for the right time, or the good time to start a work. If you have decided to do something, then never wait for the right circumstances, as in fact ideal circumstances or good time to do that particular work will never come, and ultimately the work will suffer and became pending.
Take timely action and feel happy about it.
You know what; successful people never let fear dominate their lives. To be very frank they actually dominate all sorts of fear in their life.
You know what if you fear of doing something, that thing will never be done by you.
Thus if you too really want to get success in your life, never avoid doing scary things.
Successful people will never ever worry about what others are thinking about them. You will realize that negative feedback’s or even the positive ones should not make you so sad or happy that you can deviate from achieving your goals.
Let me give you an example, many people told me that I am not a good writer. I never thought about it. Simply my aim was to make a positive environment in the world, and this is the reason why I never stopped blogging and sharing my posts.
Though I am not saying that I am a successful person, but yes I did tried my best. And that is the success for me for the moment.
Never think about what others are thinking about you, your work, etc. Just focus on what good you can do.
As you don’t bother about others opinion about yourself, similarly you should not also judge others. Let them live their life and you should not interfere in it.
You know what a human being, who has this tendency of insulting people behind their backs, is always considered as a cheap person. And on this morale ground only they won’t be able to become successful.
I really do hate those who do this along with making gossips about others. Successful people are always having this self satisfaction about who they are and they do feel that there is no need to look down on others.
We human beings have this normal tendency of comparing things. Successful people always do compete with themselves only, not from anyone else.
You know what as the five fingers of our hand are not equal, similar the case with all human beings is. Every person has a unique story and which might has no connection with anyone else. So there is no point in comparing your life and work with someone else.
Do your work with full dedication and never compare the same with anyone else.
Try to compete with yourself only and see the differences which it will bring.
A worst characteristic of any person is that they will involve themselves in oiliness. This is something which I do hate badly.
Any successful people will hate this tendency of buttering others. Successful people will never find joy in pleasing others. You need to know that you won’t be able to please everyone in your life. You need to take some strong decisions at time. Considering about the benefits you will have to decide something.
Always remember that it is the quality which matters not the quantity.
There is no point in making quantity of relationships with others, than making a few quality relationships.
In your life you will have to accept truth all the time. Delaying decisions sometimes force you to deny truth. Problems left unaddressed have a way of multiplying as the time go by.
Try to accept all the inconvenient truths of your life all the time and see the differences in your life.
Successful people always have this quality of accepting truth.
One of the lines on one of the tees of my wife says “Winner never quits, and Quitter never wins”.
It’s an awesome quote. I don’t know who originally said it, but undoubtedly it is a finest point to mark in everyone’s life.
Successful people never think about quitting because of some minor set-backs. They can face any situation in their life with confidence and come out of it easily. Believe me failure are inevitable and unavoidable in anyone’s life.
If you want to grow, you will have to face the failures as well. Failures should not have the ability to stop you in achieving what you want to.
I guess those were the 10 things which can make you successful in your life. Though there is no guarantee. Actually no one gives guarantee for the success of anyone.
It is the hard work, dedication and the passion of a person which actually makes someone successful. You just need to try with full dedication to achieve your goals and your honest efforts will surely make you successful.
Although I might not be aware of some other things which can play a crucial role in making you successful, if you do know something of that sort, then please don’t hesitate in sharing the same with us.
I love the two points Alok – Don’t stop doing things, Don’t stop doing scary things.. Very sensible ones and very practical too. I guess the moment we try our hands on something scary, the past failures come to mind and the natural thought is succumbing to that and not trying at all. Something more elegant would be to do this, try doing it anyway… Cos we really have very less to lose.
Nice pointers Alok, success is 10 points away 🙂
Cheers,
V
Thanks a lot Vinay for your appreciating words. I am really delighted that you like the points 🙂 Thanks once again for reading the blog and sharing your comment 🙂
Congrats. All the ten points are very valid and useful.
But we all need to remember that we are conditioned by our early life, especially our childhood, experiences and the meanings we have given to those experiences. The meanings may be illogical today, but they rule us. Whenever we want to do something, these childhood illogical decisions (CID) come in the way and prevent us from doing things. These CIDs are drilled deep into our subconscious. If we carefully notice, most of our thinking, decisions, actions are subconscious. We hardly make any conscious decisions or do things consciously. It is like, a pre-programmed machine, operating spontaneously. So, the roots to success is to dig into our subconscious and remove the cobwebs. It is easier to correct them when someone is young. Once these conditionings are hardened, it might be very difficult, almost impossible to change.
We need to practice Conscious Living. It requires tremendous effort, practice, but not difficult. This is a very deep subject and would require a lot of explanation and contemplation. However, your points are definitely worthy of pursuing by everyone for success.
T N Neelakantan
http://www.neel48.blogspot.com
Thanks a lot T N Neelakantan. I am really delighted that you like the post and I am really thankful that you shared your opinion about it as well. Many thanks for all the appreciation.
Whatever you said about conscious living is really true. Thanks for your comment, I hope you will like other blog posts of mine as well.
Extremly love this post…..very inspiring 🙂
Correct points, Alok! 🙂
Thanks a lot hindustanisakhisaheli, I am really glad that you found this post as inspiring. 🙂 It really means a lot to me.
Thanks a lot Anita 🙂 I am really feeling glad that you like it.