How to Deal With Negative People?

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4 responses to “How to Deal With Negative People?”

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   Mahesh Semwal

   March 18, 2014

   Very informative post !
   But some time negative thing is good for taking risk . Whenever I am confused & not able to decide what to do , I asked by self if I take this decision what will be most negative thing going on happen, which helps me in taking risk.

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      Alok Vats

      March 19, 2014

      Thanks Mahesh for reading the post and sharing your comment with us. I am glad that you like it.

      Considering negative things is entirely different than giving the negative thoughts to everyone else. Just giving you an example:

      You are traveling to some place, and you thought to choose a particular route, and out of sudden your friend will start saying so many bad things about that route, and unfortunately if you stuck in that route for any reason, he will start blaming you. Believe me, he is the Person who never tried that route, but started complaining about the same.

      Consider watching a movie, and one of your colleague started saying all the bad things about the movie, despite being the fact that she never watched it.

      Consider going out to eat dinner with your wife, no matter which restaurant you decide, you will find negative things about that from one of your colleague, although he himself never gone there.

      So basically my blog post was about tackling those negative people only, who themselves never try anything new, but never stop them self to criticize the same too. I actually don’t like this approach of negativity. Rather your approach of asking yourself for all the negative aspect of a work is really good. This way at least you can remain alert about the problems which you might face ahead.

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   Maniparna Sengupta Majumder

   March 19, 2014

   It’s really hard to deal with negativity . Negative minded people tend to let down your own soul along with them…you’ve nicely pointed out some solution..

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      Alok Vats

      March 19, 2014

      Thank you Maniparna. I am glad that you like this blog post of mine. Thanks for appreciation.

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