So this blog of mine is for all the female readers of my blog. You all know that Valentine Day is round the corner and every girl want to get the perfect guy for them. The biggest challenge which they face is how to look attractive to the guy whom they are thinking of?

When it comes to attract a man, do you know what is the biggest mistake made by a girl?

Well, I can tell you, in most of the cases, they would not be able to control themselves and displays how desperate are they when it comes to attract the guy.

Well, when it comes to attract a guy, every girl became a bit nervous and makes some mistakes. Read on this blog of mine to know more about how to attract the right guy for yourself.

How to Look Attractive to a Guy?

Well, to be very frank, there are so many things which we can discuss over here for covering this topic. Even I already discussed a few posts in past on the same. Here in this blog I will touch a few important points only.

Let me tell you one secret, I collected all these points directly from some of my bachelor friends, who use to discuss about these. Many a times if you read on this topic you will realize that a girl has written this, but this time I am writing on this topic on the basis of the direct feedback given by guys only.

The most important thing when you want to attract a guy is you should know about what actually attracts a guy?

Impressions Matters a Lot

Well, it’s a fact that guys want a sexy girl. It does not really means that they will be attracted towards any girl, believe me, I am talking about decent guys only, and in my opinion they get attracted towards a girl who can leave them wondering what else she can offer.

One biggest key to attract a guy is to leave a little to his imagination.

The girls who wear decent types of sexy dress (like a dress which can slightly caresses her curves is better, or a dress which can reveal a bit of cleavage, or a dress which can display a bit of the beauty of your leg is better) are being able to attract many guys.

The key is that you should not overdo it, plus whatever you wear, should be comfortable to you as well.

Never try to wear a dress in which you yourself is not at all feeling comfortable.

So girls, as you know first impression is the best one, try to be at your best when it comes to attract a special person.

Be Confident Enough

Girls, confidence is the key towards whatever you do. Be it to do any regular work, and even it works well with attracting a guy. Many guys accept this that if a girl can talk to them with confidence they will believe anything which they will tell.

Along with confidence when it comes to attract guys you need to be a bit blunt as well and always focus on truth. Guys always love the girl who will tell them truth.

Always remember that you need to display how good you are to your guy, but to do so you should always know about yourself. You must need to have self confidence.

You might also read one of my very old blog on 7 ways to build your confidence and 11 ways to gain confidence by Divya.

Girls, always try to focus on being whatever you are, never try to show something to your guy. Believe me we guys always hate the showy nature.

So you might look impressive, and be confident enough as well, but the concern is how to start a conversation with the guy? Well, this is something on which normally girls need not to bother about, as guys would preferably try to interact with them more than they themselves look for it. But, in a condition where your guy is not at all giving any importance to your presence, then you will have to make him feel your presence.

If you have not yet being caught by the eyes of your guy, then force him to notice you.

Start Conversation

Try to greet him, say hi, or bye, or you might say good morning, good evening, good night, etc. to him.

Just to begin the conversation you will have to give a look towards your guy, show him your best possible smile, and see his reaction.

Try to introduce yourself somehow and listen what he wanted to say. Don’t always force him listen your things only.

Start with Friendship

As we all say friendship is the first step of love, so don’t afraid to be his friend. Ask him for his friendship and I doubt he will reject it. Being accepted as his friend, try to make a very special place in his heart. I am sure you will be able to do so with time.

Don’t try to make a place in his heart in a hurry. It might cost you later.

Remember one thing, a guy might be more open to guys only, but it doesn’t means that you would not be able to let him open. You can also make a place in his heart so that he doesn’t have any hesitation in opening up with you.

Have a Bit Romantic

Now that you are a friend of his, so it’s not like that you should remain in the same stage. It’s your duty to go ahead from this stage slowly-slowly. Show him your caring nature and concerns about him. Be careful enough that your caring nature should not be taken in a way that it can become a problem for him.

Be focused that you don’t want to stay in this friendship zone for a long time, and your relationship should not become complicated.

Show your romantic side as well. It will help him to come up. Try to talk to him on a regular basis, and compliment him too on a few occasions.

Don’t wait For His Proposal

Now you are slowly-slowly coming out of this friendship zone, so what next you might do to attract him towards yourself? Try to be a bit flirty with him. Try to do things together, and go out with him. Try to show him that you are interested in him, and still if you are seeing that he is not coming up with proposal, then don’t wait for it.

Let’s propose him, when you think it’s too much now. But never lose your patience, even when you might be able hear a no from him.

Try to understand his point of view as well, and remain the same to him even after this. I am quite sure if you can understand his problem and helps him to resolve them, he will definitely be yours forever.

Let me you all tell me my own story, my wife who was my class mate and friends for a long time, once proposed me, and I said no to her, explaining my family condition. Even her family condition was not quite similar to mine; we two discussed about it and understand it.

Thus with time, we two helped each other to resolve all the issues. Though it take around 4 years but we never lose our patience, just because we two were supporting each other. And then finally we got married and now we have a little angel as well in our life. Here is one of the cutest snap of my little angel:

You might think about following my little angel’s page on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GarimaPihuVats

The Bottom Line

So the bottom line of the story is that, have patience, and confident in yourself, look as much charming as possible, be what you are in reality and try to attract your guy. Always wear a smile on your face, as it is one of the best things which might help you to attract him.

Don’t hesitate in sharing your opinion about this blog of mine. You might also share your own love story with us.