5 Simple Rules to Become Successful in Life!

Many of us are having a dream of being a successful person. Who doesn’t want to own their own business? Who doesn’t want to have the boss of their own? Who doesn’t want to be known as the most successful person in their own field?

Being successful is something which cannot be defined with some stats, if you do own a million in your bank account; it simply doesn’t means that you are successful. Similarly, you are the CEO of a MNC, but still you can’t claim that you became successful in your life.

It is something which you can get at any age, at any time and in any circumstances. You need to understand that you are successful only when your heart claims the same to you. A few days back I saw the retirement of the cricket legend Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar, and to be very frank, my eyes were wet at that time when he was giving his last speech. I simply saw the same in many other eyes. Though during his entire career, there were many people among us who actually criticized him for many things, but at the time of retirement he attained the peak of his life and thus he can be considered as the successful by many.

During his career of 24 years he gave many moments to cherish about to the common people of India and this is something which made him successful.

In a Similar way if you can bring some smile and happiness on a single face, it will make your life successful in my opinion.

Don’t Think About Problems

Well, problems are bound to come in our life. We all are surrounded by many concerns, issues, tensions, etc. But again it is our own duty to fight against them. Just give value to your own time, even more than money and you will realize that the time which you were wasting on facing problems can be utilized in doing some other creative works. And believe me, if you understand to neglect the problems of your life, they will automatically erased from your life.

Well a few days back I tweeted something, and it was: Fall, no issues, everyone falls, but the best thing is that stand up after fall, and go ahead. This is life…

You can check this tweet and many others of similar types at https://twitter.com/vatsalok/status/413938151522975744 (follow me at my twitter account)

Well to be very precise, if you really want to succeed in this life, the very first thing which you can do is to believing in your own abilities that you can do it. This attitude (as shared by me at https://twitter.com/vatsalok/status/413967722540572672) is the real strength through which you can truly defeat the problems of your life.

Focusing on your own strengths should be your prime mantra for your life.

Push Yourself More

To become successful in this life, always try to do impossible things, or things which seems impossible to others at first instance, or things at which you are becoming a bit uncomfortable. Try to push yourself to get the maximum results. This attitude will definitely help you to become successful.

Get Helps from Others

Well, we normally feel shy to take helps from others, but if you really want to become successful then don’t hesitate in asking helps from the experts of the field. Don’t be afraid in seeking helps from them. Always remember the person who is already successful will never say no to help others, if he/she is saying no in providing any help, it clearly means that he/she has not yet become successful, they still need some more time to reach to that level.

Have Patience

As I mentioned in a previous post that patience is the secret behind a happy life. It is in fact very much required if you want to conquer in any field. If you don’t have patience, you won’t be able to survive. In your journey of life, you might fail many times, if you don’t have patience you won’t be able to take those failures as a positive note.

So, if you don’t have this term known as patience, get a coach for yourself (someone like me 😉 ), and learn this technique as soon as possible.

Learn from Your Competitors

To be very frank, I would like to say you that never underestimate your competitors at any time of your life, and always try to learn new things from them. You should treat them as a role model of your life, and follow what good things they are doing. I am not saying to copy them, as it is, but you can improvise the things and become successful.

Normally people see some kind of threats in their competitors, but my opinion is a bit different in this respect. I would always try to learn something new or good from my competitors.

The Bottom Line

Well the bottom line of the topic of how to become successful in life is that surround yourself with people who has the similar and positive approach towards life, and also include some friends in your life like me, who know how to remain happy and calm in all the conditions of life. If you are surrounded by some happy people, happiness will always flow in your life.

One of my tweets related to this: Happy people around you always bring happiness in your life, so be happy and make those types of friends too… (https://twitter.com/vatsalok/status/415084320911400961)

Do let me know if I am successful in letting you know about the rules which can make you successful, if followed on a regular basis or not. Your comments are something which gives me immense happiness, and I am waiting for them.