How to Develop Relationships with a Girl who is Already in a Relationship?

Suppose you went to a party and met with a beautiful girl. You realized that she is not only a beauty queen, but also an intelligent girl, and a perfect match for you. You decided to ask her for a date.

Out of sudden you came to know that she is already in a relationship. You want to spend more time with her, but you came to know that she is in a serious relationship with someone else.

What will you do in this case?

Can you still ask her for a date?

Do you have that much of courage? Well, you can think that, I in fact don’t have such courage to ask her for a date. 😉

True? No…

You can still ask her for a date. You can still take her out.

Confused?

Do read this blog to ask a girl for a date, who is already in a serious relationship with someone else.

Let’s Have Friendship with Her!

The first step towards asking her for a date goes through friendship. Don’t hesitate in asking her for becoming your friend, so that you two can remain in touch, else your chapter will close at the same instance.

Also don’t feel abused if she rejected your friendship plea. In case she rejected your friendship, you can be a bit bold and share your contact details to her, asking if in case she becomes single she can remember you.

Jokes apart, but yes, if she rejects you, just pass on your contact details in a very polite manner and get away from her. At least you tried.

Friendship Accepted What Next?

Hoorah, she accepted your friendship, what next?

Next step is quite simple, just stay in touch with her. Try to remain in contact with her as much as possible. You can use social networking sites like Twitter, Facebook, Google+, LinkedIn, etc. to remain in touch. You can also directly text her. You can also use apps like whatsapp so that you can remain in touch with her.

But, does it make sense?

Yes it does make sense.

You will slowly-slowly start making your place in her heart. Just because she is already in a relationship does not means that you cannot try.

Take Extra Care of Her!

Well as I said that just because she is already in a relationship does not means that you cannot try, rather slowly-slowly make your romantic intentions clear to her. Take extra care of her, and come out from the normal friend zone of hers.

Slowly you will become a very good friend of her, and you can offer your shoulder to her at her difficult times.

Seriousness of Her Relationship!

Well now that you become a very good friend of her, you can clearly judge the seriousness of her relationships. You can clearly identify how serious is she for her present relationship. If it’s a casual sort of dating, then you can easily ask her for a date. But yes, do remember if it’s an exclusive type of relationship between her and her boyfriend, don’t ever try to fall in between them.

If she’s Happy?

You already knew many things about her relationships now, so you can easily judge this if she is happy with her present relationship, if you cannot then simply ask her.

There is no harm in asking her if she is happy with her boyfriend.

If she is happy then don’t lose your heart. Simply try, one day she will go out for a date with you (can be a casual date only).

If she is not, then it is a perfect chance for you to ask her for a date. Tell her to give a chance to you and I am quite sure she will accept the offer.

Points to Remember

These types of situations are really bad and should always be avoided. If you really liked a girl and came to know that she is already in a relationship, then at first instance you should not go ahead with all these, as these can hurt you a lot in long run.

But still, if you have decided to try your luck, always remember not to become a side dish. Also be careful, as the girl who violates someone’s trust because of you, next time can do the same with you as well.

Always remember that in relationships you should always try to become an attractive person instead of trying to attract others towards you. Confidence is something which is always requiring weather you is flirting or serious enough with someone.

Always remain decent with her, and respect all her decisions with her present relationships. Never try to put your nose in between two of them. It will broke your own nose 🙂