Things That Women Need to Change About Themselves!

We often point out that quiet a number of men do not know how to respect women. Women think that men should:-

• Think and consider women as capable and talented as they think of themselves.
• They should see women as people and not objects.
• Men should not discriminate in the work place or at home.
• Men should learn to give women freedom, n choice of doing what they feel like.

But one thing should be considered that now it’s high time as to when women should learn to get respect from men and others in their society, rather than expecting them to give it to you in return. It’s time for little “self reflection” ladies.

Women, according to men the most confused and adorable creatures on the earth. They have been given this quality both at the same time. Most of the girls are living with this mindset that if they do not have a boyfriend they have no class, and the ones who have them think themselves to be superior to those who do not have boyfriends. If we ask boys generally, as to what they think about girls, they point out straightaway they are highly confused and self centered, but they will never speak anything about their own girlfriends, no matter how irritating and poky they are. I being a girl, having studied in an all girls school, and having girls all around me, know as to what extent girls can be irritating and mean, though not all, but still a few handful of them. They know all tactics to attract men and then show them off by saying I’m committed.

Here we are discussing a few things that we think women should consider and change about themselves.

That constant urge and desire of judging other ladies around

All women know that they are hard on themselves and harder on others (women). At the very moment if a lady talks to you and her back, one of you has to comment “look at her sari, seems to be a cheap one”, or “her make-up is so not happening”, or “last time I saw her, she was with another man”. A girl in a mini skirt seems to be a “slut” to the other women. Do you think that this kind of a mind set it required to let the country grow, NO certainly a “no”, respect the ones of your own species first and then let’s talk behind other’s back.

From a badly cooked dish to ill fitted clothes we are ready to judge others without peeping within. Why can you not let each other breathe, girls are not in secured in front of boys as they are when they have to face their own fellow beings, the “girls”. Women and girls in themselves can never be happy for another, they will somehow or the other find faults taunt till the other one feels oppressed and gives a good one in return.

Bring an end to that “faking” thing

Some women in kitty parties fake around about their jewellery, the brands that they carry, and the cars in which they go around. Someone please make them understand, no one is out of cash, or is bankrupt, most of us can afford all these luxuries, but all don’t show off, many believe in saving for their bad times or in their times of need.

Many women have this habit of feeding the male ego, by this I mean even if the joke isn’t that funny, still many have to laugh at it, playing and posing dumb to allow a man to feel superior. Why do we fake so much, and moreover do you find any use in harping over the issue of equality, when you ultimately have to lapse into being clue less eye flutterers and make men feel great about themselves over their poor jokes ?

Try figuring out as to who are you, are you in the world to follow men, or be dominated by them.

Stand up for your property rights

Now this is something serious, that should be focused at, here we are not talking about the ones who are not literate and do not know as to what are their property rights, I am very sure each one of you reading this article is well aware of the fact that women have equal share and right in the property of their father, in the same way as a boy has. If you are being deprived of this right of yours then please make sure you stand up for it and never let it go. So do not be an emotional fool, when after your marriage your brother asks for your share too and you give it way rather sacrifice it for him, you do not have to act selflessly eternal. Do not hurt your own kind by acting in such a manner.

Dream big and achieve bigger

Think big and something out of your mentality to out beat other women, why can we not united and fight our battle. The fact that we all know is that we women are not encouraged in the same way as men are. Take examples of such women who have performed well in their fields and have out beaten men, I do not have to name such women we are all well aware of their names. Play your own part well. Being inconsiderate of the fact that what others are doing, others will automatically follow when you start.

Do not be way too trapped when it comes to relationships

Now this is something crucial, because women have that soft corner when she needs a masculine support. It is necessary undoubtedly, but do not drown yourself into it so much that you forget that you too have an identity of yours. Be with a person who can help you find your position and makes you feel secured. Be practical enough to be with someone and also sensible enough to let someone go if you feel bonded or if you feel you cannot grow.

Therefore ladies try and be as gentle and possible not only to men but also to your fellow female colleagues, friends and any other person who is either a lady or a girl, learn to respect those of your own kind first.