Three Golden Rules of Life!
Life is too unpredicted. We want to live a life which has all the happiness and free from all worries, but practically it’s not possible to live a life with all the happiness and which cannot have any worries involved.
Frankly, after writing so many blogs on Self Improvement, I was just thinking about what I should write for my next blog. A few days back I created a small picture and shared it with the Facebook page of I News India, and that time only I decided to write something on some golden rules of life which can make our life better.
I always want to write a book on some golden rules of life which can help the reader to live a better life, but I know that my desire of becoming an author will not be fulfill, at least for next 3-4 years, as for this duration I am more involved with my 9 to 6 job. After 3-4 years, I will definitely quit my day job and shift to a better place with my family and spend time in completing these types of activities.
In this blog I will summarize about the top three golden rules of life, which are too crucial in my opinion, and if we follow them properly then I think we can be able to live a more happy life. These rules are something which I always follow in my own life, and I am quite happy with them, though I don’t know what others think about me, but yes I always try to implement these rules in my personal as well professional life. Here are those:
Always Appreciate the Help of Others!
This is quite general rule, though very crucial. We always hear this in our life, but we don’t give it much value.
Knowingly or unknowingly, willingly or unwillingly, we always ignore the person who actually helps us in anyway. This is not good in my opinion.
Every person who are involved with us in our life, plays some kind of role in our life, and everytime helps us in any way and it is our duty to thank them or appreciate their help so that they can be more encouraged towards helping us and others in the similar way.
This way you are not only making yourself more valuable towards your society, rather you are also helping someone to become a great person. You are actually encouraging someone to help others as you are directly appreciating him/her for his/her help. Thus my first golden rules of living a great life is that always appreciate the help of others.
Never Put Money as The Only Goal of Your Life!
Frankly, I have seen many people whose ultimate goal of life is to earn as much money as possible, for them emotions of others, or other values does not matter at all.
In my opinion, bringing the smile on someone else face is the ultimate goal of my life, money has no role to play in my life. I know money is one of the biggest factor, but still there are so many small-small things which can bring the happiness in someone else life, and believe me that won’t cost you much too.
So my dear friends, what I will suggest you all is to never put money as the only goal of your life. See around yourself and you will find many faces in which you can bring happiness with very small-small activities.
Don’t Think Much About Things Which Are Not in Your Hand!
Well, the third, but the most important rules of my life is that I never worry about the things which are actually not in my control, rather I only worry about the things which are in my control, or which can be influenced and changed directly by my action.
I have seen many friends of mine who actually worry too much about the things which are not at all in their control, but this way they actually don’t realize that they are actually wasting their present and ruining their own life.
So my suggestion to you all is to think about things which are directly in your control or you can change, not about the things which are not in your hand.
I hope you will like this post, please do let me know your comments or feedback on the same in the form of comment.
Nice post. All the three points are very valid. I try to follow them but it’s like our nature and we can’t worrying about the things to come. 🙂
Hey Gaurab, thanks a lot for your comment and appreciation. I am glad that you like the blog, you said it right that we try to follow them but we won’t be able to do so, and for this I would say one thing, people need patience, and it will help us to solve every problems of our life.
Right points, Alok.
A good life is what we dream & better try to attain it wisely 🙂
Thanks a lot Anita 🙂
“A good life is what we dream & better try to attain it wisely” Very true.