How to Know if Your Relationship is Over?

Relationships are a big deal, occupying at least 40% of your total awake time, 80% of your thoughts and almost 100% of your heart and emotions but when they drift apart, it feels better to have never been into them and there are always signs, hints that tell you where it is going.

At times things go perfectly fine, for years and years but even after several years one day you might suddenly feel that the relationship is actually not moving, anywhere. It‘s standing right there where it has been for so many days and you didn’t probably noticed. You know there is no third person entry in his/her life to make you feel insecure even! Then it becomes important to know actually where is it going, is it going towards the end?

A few situations which you can identify as signs to tell you it’s getting over could be:

1. Being connected is an important aspect in any romantic relationship especially in this age of super technology of phones and social networks. He/she might not be able to call you always but if you miss the urge in him/her to at least remain connected and updated about you, that’s the first sign.
2. Are you being lately told that you don’t “need” to know certain things about him/her? Even if you ask out of usual concern and curiosity like you always did, he/she says what is the need of you knowing it all! Well this is the slightest of the bell that we hear and yet ignore.
3. He/she is suddenly “only” interested in what fun you are having in your life apart from him/her. This sign is the cruelest of all. We keep on taking it as their possessiveness for us but don’t notice their ‘only’ point of interest remaining in us.
4. He/she can’t talk to you right now because they are with family/ friends or already too upset with various reasons to talk to you. Remember ‘where there is a will, there is a way’ If he /she really wanted too, they would have ‘made’ it happen but it’s not happening! Intimation of love-lessness is lying right here, in this behavior.
5. Socializing is again an indispensable element of homosapiens .If he/she is socializing too much these days or is developing a problem with your Social network; its time you realize that they are not being jealous out of love but may be feeling insecure about his/her presence in your life. He/she might also complain that their social life is nowhere because of you, gulp this as another vital sign of them drifting away from you. If you’re going through a messy divorce, you might realize you need custody lawyers in Salt Lake City to represent you instead.

Years of being in a full fledged relationship makes you live it for real! You know your partner, their habits and addictions very well, you know there couldn’t be a third person except you in their lives but that’s not all to keep a relationship alive. At times things have their own course of breathing. They gradually die when that course is finished. So take these cues, save it if you can, and if still they go away from you- they were never meant to be yours! Be Positive-always!!