How to get exactly what you want in your life?
Are you interested in knowing how to get your goals straight and start working on them by acting in the right direction? In this article I will be posing few powerful questions on you which will not only help you in determining what you want in life but also help identify and then eliminate the obstacles in the path.
These are pretty simple questions and you will have to grab a pen and paper as you go along with the questionnaire. They will guide in determining what you actually want in life and finally you will be able to make the progress once you have an aim set in your mind.
What do you want?
There are many people in this world who do not know what they are actually looking for. For those, I would like to suggest everyone wants what they love and make them happy. It is best to choose a career option which you love and are able to make a decent living; this will make you happy and satisfied till the end. Or the other way round could be just love what you do, this will also lead to happiness. So, you can make your choice between the two. Setting up of goal is very important as you do not wish to be a regretful person at the age of forty thinking ‘I wish I had done that’.
Why Do You Want It?
This is the next question on the lane and great focus should be given to it. The best reason for this question according to me would be I am doing it because I love and feels fulfilled while doing it. This makes me feel good and get drawn towards it automatically. If you have this kind of feeling towards anything then just stop right there and set that thing as your goal. This is the simplest way of putting it I could think of.
What are the obstacles?
This is the most interesting and important question. This will help you identify, analyze and solve out your problems. What is it exactly which is working as an obstacle to fulfill your dreams. Once you know where the problem lies you can figure out a way to solve it. But first you need to figure out the problem in order to solve it. And then the next thing on your mind should be why are these things working as obstacles in your path and from where on earth they came from?
For some people obstacle is lack of confidence, lack of knowledge, family circumstances or some other issue. For every problem there is a solution. For instance, if you lack in knowledge, you know where you are lacking and gaining more knowledge is the solution. The most important thing in this whole exercise is gaining confidence about yourself and your dreams. If you have got that, no one on earth can stop you from achieving what you want in life.
Find a solution for all these questions and you will know exactly how to get what you want in life.