What to do when your Friend lets you Down?
Friends are regarded as one of the best assets we get in our lives. It is our friends with whom we share our joys, our sorrows, our secrets and everything. It is our friend that we assume will stand with us whenever we need them the most. We assume that they will be with us when everybody will let us down. But it hurts the most when the friend you have trusted so much regarded as your brother in arms lets you down. Suddenly you find yourself unable to trust anybody in this world. You start to loose faith in friendship.
It’s obvious to get frustrated after your friend lets you down because you have trusted him so much. The situation worsens when you start analyzing your friendship and the reasons why your friend let you down. It’s then when you start blaming yourself and assume that you and your nature is the reason why your friend let you down. You start thinking that there is something wrong with you and you don’t know how to remain friend. This is the worst side effect after your friend lets you down. It shakes your self confidence in yourself and you start avoid being social.
In reality you tried everything you could to please your friend and you have the best nature. If someone does not like you then it’s his problem not yours. Do not blame yourself and don’t ever assume that there is something wrong with you. Because one person does not like you it does not mean that you need to change your personality. You have to believe in yourself. It does not matter what he says about you do not let it to get to your head. Think positively about yourself. Think that it was him who had faults not you. Try everything you could to retain your confidence because if you loose confidence you will get in depression.
Life does not stop for everyone and that’s what you should think when your friend lets you down. Do not make it cause for your depression just because some one does not like you and does not like to be with you. Take it as a good thing that he was not trustable and it’s good that you have got rid of him. Morale of the story, try everything but do not loose your confidence.