Some Reasons why Your Boss can Hate You!

This time I thought to blog about a topic on which many people discussed with me in past, and I know few friends of mine who always faces the situation. It is a situation in which you consider that your boss actually hates you, and you don’t even know the reasons too. Well you’re probably correct that your boss hates you, and it can have many reasons.

Well actually there can be many reasons behind why your boss hates you, but the prime factor remains with your work habits. Here I would also like to tell you something interesting, that your thinking can be a misconception for you too, as you are thinking that your boss hates you, but it might not be true too. Here are some reasons why your boss can hate you:

Attitude:
Call it as bad attitude, or you are too argumentative with your colleagues, it can damage your image in your work place. Doesn’t matter, if you are having authority at your work place, but it won’t allow you to show your disagreement with your employees in a manner which can disrupt the environment of your work place. Come up with a new idea to show disagreement, like one of my friend’s uses official mail to show his disagreement rather than arguing with his subordinates.

Wasting Time:
One of the prime reasons why your superior hates you is because he find that you waste too much time. Be it using your mobile phone for long-long time, or spending too much time on social networking sites like Facebook, Orkut etc., or constantly chatting with your colleagues or friends, or constantly updating your pictures,  these are some non-work activities which can surely increase the hate for you in the mind of your boss. One of my friends who is an HR in a MNC, told me that these days she is meeting with many employees who prefer to spent more time on Facebook and chatting. According to her, there are some times when you can feel bore and you can spend some time on killing these spare moments, but if you are using more than 25% of your entire time on all these activities then you are not a good resource for your company. And it is enough to generate anger in the mind of your boss.

Late Coming:
Another reason for which any boss can hate his employees is late coming. Well, it might happen that you are facing some problem and you became late to reach to your work place, but it cannot happen on all the days. Occasional late coming is avoidable, but if you are continuously making a practice of always coming late, then your boss has all the right to hate you. One of my friends, who are a Marketing Manager, told me that many people did not understand that they are breaking the chain of the productivity of the company by coming late. This is yet another reason why your boss has all the right to hate you.

Other than the above mentioned points, there are some more reasons too for why your boss can hate you. It can either be because you ask too many questions, or you lack the passion or interest in your work, you are a bit more gossipy than others etc. A good employee is the person, who can read the mind of his boss, and deliver according to his or her wish. So what I always suggest to a few friends of mine that first go through the mind of your boss and read what is going inside it, and then mould yourself according to what he expects from you. It will surely help you to reduce the level of hate in the mind of your boss, and also avoid spending time on unproductive works at your work place.