Being Too Nice is Good or Bad?

Being too nice is good or bad? I know many of my readers will respond in negative manner that being nice is really bad. Frankly speaking these days you won’t find a single case as being too nice. But there are a few people in this world who are really nice. Being so nice in this selfish world is really difficult, but there are a few people who still try to being nice to everyone.

In this practical world, every body is selfish, and they think about themselves or only about their nuclear family. They just treat people as they would like to be treated. It’s practical too. But unfortunately, there are some people who treat every people in the same manner and that too in a very good way. These sorts of people always try to help others, despite knowing the fact that the other person is using him for his work.

Let me tell you a secret today, if you are a nice person, and helps everyone, then other people will consider you as emotional fool or emotionally damaged, and they will also think that you are a weak person. Every other person will try it’s best to take advantage of you. In fact these days if you are a good people then you are a fool and others will laugh on you, but not in front of you, behind your back.

Many people think that if you are a nice people then you won’t be able to stand up for yourself. But it’s not true. Those who are really nice, those are not emotionally weak or emotional fool. It’s their inner self which is really nice and they help others. Well practically if you show kindness or help to someone, they will consider it as an opportunity. Those selfish people will always try to take benefit from this opportunity. They may even ask you for the favors.

If you do the favor once then they may continue to ask you to do favors. Now the major problems with the nice people are that they won’t be able to say no to any one. Saying no will goes against their kind nature and they feel guilty in saying no to others despite knowing the fact that other people is using him for his work.

Now this act of kindness is something which sends the wrong message to others. This is why the other people feel that they can do whatever they want to do to you. They are aware that you won’t say anything to them. Now this is why many people think that being nice is bad, really bad.

Well dear, come what may, for me, being nice is really good. Seeing the smile on the face of someone else is the real prize for me. It gives me immense pleasure when I see the smile on the face of others, that too because of me. But yes, I would like to tell you that being nice is good, unless you know where to say NO to others. You should not allow others to use you.