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There is no verse in the Bible that says “God helps those who helps themselves”. In the first place, why should God help you already if you are managing it on your own? I think God helps those who are helpless and turn to Him for help. Not those proud people who can already help themselves.
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I like many of these tips. Some of them work from the inside out and some from the outside in. I’ve never quite thought that walking a faster clip would give me self confidence but I suppose it would. Not only will I feel more energetic but I will look like I know what I’m doing and where I’m going. I will have respect of those around me which will add to my already growing confidence. Nice article. Thanks for posting these handy tips.
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A few day’s back I got a mail from a friend of mine, the content was like this:
This is one of the best explanations of why God allows pain and suffering that I have seen…
A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.
As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation.
They talked about so many things and various subjects.
When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said:
“I don’t believe that God exists.”
“Why do you say that?” asked the customer. “Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn’t exist.
Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people?
Would there be abandoned children?
If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain.
I can’t imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things.”
The customer thought for a moment, but didn’t respond because he didn’t want to start an argument.
The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop.
Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard.
He looked dirty and unkempt. The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber:
“You know what? Barbers do not exist.”
“How can you say that?” asked the surprised barber.
“I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!”
“No!” the customer exclaimed. “Barbers don’t exist because
if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside.”
“Ah, but barbers DO exist! That’s what happens when people do not come to me.”
“Exactly!” affirmed the customer. “That’s the point! God, too, DOES exist!
That’s what happens when people do not go to Him and don’t look to Him for help.
That’s why there’s so much pain and suffering in the world.” -
Confidence in oneself is the driving force behind becoming more than we could believe we could ever be. Once you are in tune with ourselves – the sky is not a limit at all!
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The greatest power lies within. Only you have the power to make your life the way you want it to be. Everyone else is usually to busy with their own life. And remembering that you only have one life, why would you not want the best for yourself.
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Self-confidence arises in a person when he knows that he is worthy for the entitled job. When he donot care for what others would feel. When he is knows actually what he is, and he do things in his OWN real way, and not copied from others style.
He should have faith in himself that God is always with him and he is on the right track.
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Walk slowly, like you own the place. Walking quickly makes you look skittish and nervous.
Confident people most certainly DO NOT sprint about
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I think there is a fine line between having confidence, and being kind of arrogant. The “walking faster to look like you have important things to do” part, is in my opinion just a way of raising your own self confidence by looking down on other people, who does not have these ‘important’ things to do (which you actually don’t have either).
I kinda laugh inside myself at these kind of people, who try to look important, when really, they aren’t (not to put them down, I just think it seems shallow).
I’m personally a quiet introverted person. I have confidence in myself, but I feel no need to especially get others to notice me, or speak up at every chance I get. I speak only when it is about something that interests me, or in arguments in which I feel a need to voice my opinion.I agree with some of the suggestions, but a lot of them I think is kind of simple suggestions, which would just build ’empty’ confidence, where you don’t really have anything to be confident about.
Instead of using simple ‘tricks’, you could use your time on gaining knowledge about subjects that interest you, do a good job in school or at work.
For me, that naturally raises my self confidence since I feel like I can be proud of the effort I put in.Overall I would say that being confident is about believing in your own abilities and just be yourself.
Sorry for the long rant.. :p
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My Lord? I ask you for beneficial Knowledge, and i seek refuge from non-beneficial knowledge.”
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“Vic” takes exception to the idea of God helping “those who help themselves.” I don’t think He helps anyone. But if we follow the 11th commandment and smile -even in the face of adversity- we can help ourselves to the God within.
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i have much confi. bcz i m good looking and i have 6 ft height i m bearing long clothes and my confide. my personalty it’s my plesur. i m smile much time so i m cool boy.
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Cool, nice article. I reached to this site for the first time and I am highly impressed with the posts. Good work, keep it up.
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the tips are very useful in gaining self confidence and i feel people do fail in building confidence because they do not revise these. tips. good work
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Thanks a lot Owiti, for your comment and appreciation. I am highly delighted that you liked the post.
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YUP ALL THESE THINGS ARE REALLY VERY USEFUL..
I HAVE OBSERVED IT RATHER EXPERIENCED IT.-
Thanks Anuradha for your comment, I am glad that you liked the article.
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I like the valuable info you provide in your articles
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Nice work.
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Thanks Edward.
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